When you first realize that God is not your friendy you start wondering, and the less you believe what others tell you, the more you start to realise that you're not.
Welcome to aware.
Welcome to aware.
When you first realize that God is not your friendy you start wondering, and the less you believe what others tell you, the more you start to realise that you're not.
Welcome to aware.
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The first time I heard of Mojo was from Auston Powers when he lost it in The spy who shagged me.
Since then there has been a lot of that going around and I was wondering if I shouldn't start a online lost and found to help the suffering masses in their hour of need? Something like a mojospa, where tired mojos can come to revive, back to their rearing selves again. There's no telling what a heady sense of mojoclear can do for your mojo babe. Have a shagadellic day. The gaps ye perceive
oh ye of belief, are the gaps ye belie when ye be not the truth that is And still ye insist that world be as sound as the word of someone else's belief. It's not! I'm bemused by the fact that I maintain a range of online activities where thanking me for a "interesting article" depend a lot on what you've seen. From fetish and porn, all the way through to public health and social development, up to and inclusive of advocating universal awareness or canvassing happines and promoting spiritual enlightenment sans belief.
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<param name=regcode value="99999999"> <param name=file value="PhotoSlotMachine.jpg"> <param name=loading value="1"> <param name=speed value="15"> <param name=initspin value="1"> <param name=money value="500"> <param name=maxmoney value="1000"> <param name=winlink value="none|_self"> <param name=loselink value="none|_self"> <param name=WinText value="Congrats!"> <param name=LoseText value="Out of money!"> <param name=scrollaudio value="PhotoSlotMachine.au"> <param name=startbutton value="18 51 209 220"> <param name=stopbutton0 value="83 114 205 221"> <param name=stopbutton1 value="127 163 205 221"> <param name=stopbutton2 value="176 210 205 221"> <param name=payout value="238 265 88 101"> <param name=scrollarea value="70 219 125 197"> <param name=total value="8"> <font size=1 face=Arial> <param name=pic0 value="PhotoSlotMachine0.jpg"><param name=pic1 value="PhotoSlotMachine1.jpg"><param name=pic2 value="PhotoSlotMachine2.jpg"><param name=pic3 value="PhotoSlotMachine3.jpg"><param name=pic4 value="PhotoSlotMachine4.jpg"><param name=pic5 value="PhotoSlotMachine5.jpg"><param name=pic6 value="PhotoSlotMachine6.jpg"><param name=pic7 value="PhotoSlotMachine7.jpg"> </applet> This article is a section from Dr. Bill Cloke’s book: Happy Together: Creating a Lifetime of Connection, Commitment, and Intimacy, and the views expressed are not ones that we support or advocate, but are presented as a starting point for discussion, debate, as a common perspective. Building blocks for loving connection Boundaries: Understanding what is acceptable and what is not is vital for love to grow. We need to take time to outline what our boundaries are so we can live within them. Boundaries are created by our feelings about what does or doesn’t feel good. Consideration: To be considerate about the things that are important to your mate is essential for harmony. Helping out, remembering important events and agreements, and doing things your partner wants are small gestures that can have a large effect over time. Fairness: Being fair helps keep a relationship balanced. Sharing household chores, vacations, spending, friends, and responsibilities toward relatives creates more harmony and positive feelings. Tolerance: Our ability to tolerate our partner’s foibles and flaws is important for lasting peace.Tolerance for differences in feelings, ways of doing things, parenting styles, and the other opposing views that all couples have is a key component of creating love. Responsibility: Being able to own our part of a problem is essential for conflict resolution. One of the main reasons for divorce is the inability of one partner or the other to accept responsibility for difficulties in the relationship. Support: Support takes many forms, from helping your partner fulfill dreams and aspirations to providing care when he or she is sick or defeated. It sends a message that you believe in your partner and you are on his or her side.Making time for sex or affection or both: When couples actively create space and time for sex and affection, they will feel more contented more of the time. Physical and emotional contentment is what supports monogamy. The ability to bear ambivalence: This is the act of staying even when everything in you wants to split. Being angry, turned off, and ready to run, yet staying, listening, and fighting hard during tough times is an essential skill for long-term relationships. Roadblocks to Love Globalization: “Everybody does that.” Globalization essentially obscures the truth. If someone doesn’t want to admit that he or she has some responsibility in the problem, globalization is a perfect distraction. Blame-shifting: “And you do the same thing but worse.” Another excellent way to shift the blame away from yourself and back onto the other person.Victimhood: “I’m so good to you, and you treat me so badly.” The victim is always innocent and good. This is an emotional double whammy. “Not only are you picking on me but you should feel guilty because I am so good.”Gaslighting: “I was just kidding; can’t you take a joke?” “Noise? What noise?” This process is more insidious because it is an effort to make the other person feel crazy in order to gain power and control. Entitlement: “You’re the one who made me angry. You deserve it.” Entitlement is like a free pass to behave however you want to because you are the aggrieved party. This kind of behavior is a surefire defense because nothing gets through. Denial: “I’m not angry.” Denial is an emotional way to slam the door on any form of communication about what went wrong.Displacement: “Just because you had a bad day at work, don’t take it out on me.” Displacement happens more than most people know or understand. It’s important to tell our partner when we think this is going on. Guilt: “I work my ass off to give you everything and you can’t even make me some tea.” Guilt is often part of playing the victim, but it can also be used as a control mechanism. Shame/Blame: “You’re a human slug. You never do anything.” This process is essentially infantile because there is no empathy or compassion in it. Infants and children are not expected to be compassionate, but adults are. Stonewalling: “This is the way I am; take it or leave it.” Stonewalling is exactly that: it shuts down communication. Another form of stonewalling is simply to say nothing. Projection: “You think I’m stupid, don’t you?” This process is very common because most people are not in touch with how insecure they feel, so what they experience feels like it is coming from the other person when it is really coming from within. Devaluation: “You really could lose some of that extra weight.” Devaluation is a defense against caring and needing anyone. The less others mean to us, the less we need them. ~ A funny experience, a humorous expression of our own intention, funny impression of self, hamming it up for personal enjoyment
I have never been a fan of locks and keys but I've got to admit after 48 hours I may have changed my mind.Life is as great as we conciously remind ourselves. That in itself is a key I suppose.
There is nothing worse than a crappy mood to spoil the day for everyone else, and given the fact that the positive outcome of just about any experience you may have had depend more on your presumption than actual success or failure, making a choice about your mood may be the most important one you can make.Try to do it as soon as you wake. You'll be glad if you did at the end of the day.
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